The law of attraction is the belief that like attracts like, that by focusing on the positive or the negative, you bring the same into your life. Essentially, that you reap what you sow.

These same exact principles can be applied to any aspect of your life, from career to money. In this article though, we’re going to cover only one. What is the one thing that most people desire in their lives more than anything else? The one thing that transcends gender, culture, and race? The desire to love and be loved on an intensely deep and emotional level.

But, for most people, that’s as far as they’ve thought. They have no plan or method on how they actually want to achieve it, and in truth, they haven’t really even specified what it is that they want. They’ve left out all of the specifics, all of the details. And that’s where a great deal of people go wrong. To get what you want, you have to know what you want!

pic of hands making heartSo that’s a start, you need to figure out exactly what it is that you want in the relationship that you desire. The qualities you wish to see, the feelings you wish to feel, and the experiences you want to have.

Now, get it all down on paper, make a list of all of the thoughts that you just had. And then for good measure, make a list of what you bring to the table, and how you want your side of the relationship to look. A simple list will do, but a vision board might be a helpful tool as well!

Next, you have to clear things out and make room for this vision to come true. Let go of the past. Maybe you’ve had some terrible partners, some awful relationships that you still hold onto and think of often. You need to release those feelings and let it go. If you are always focusing on the bad, you will always get more of the same! Instead, channel that energy and focus on your vision.

love picThis next step may seem counter-productive at first, but you need to stop trying to force things to happen. That stress will be a hindrance to your vision; it will shake your focus and cause negativity. Stop trying to be in control of the entire situation. The only person that you can be in control of is yourself, but when you choose to do that you can manifest for yourself the life that you desire!

Lastly, and this might just be the most important of all, you have to match yourself to what you want. If you are envisioning a happy, calm, loving relationship but you are feeling anger, resentment, and stress, it won’t come to pass. You need to focus on the feelings you desire, and let everything else come.

 

You choose what happens, but then you have to trust that it will!